I'd never understood the concept of a nagging woman getting on your nerves until my current girlfriend: it's not so much that she nags but that she just won't shut the hell up about how she feels. Everything....and I mean everything....has has to be run through this bizarre emotional prism she has inside and she has to sit and talk through every single color it casts on the wall.
Usually I'll listen to an hour or two of it.....and I do mean hour or two a day....and end up saying "Look, you need to stop talking because I can't handle it any more." Which, of course, starts the crying.
The crying. Oh my God, the crying and histrionics. I don't consider myself such a catch that I can afford to caste off women like yesterday's socks but, this girl's going to the curb.
I’m gonna catch heat for this, but I CAN’T STAND WOMEN WHO CRY. It’s manipulative. Period. It’s not gonna going to get better for you, my friend...
You can’t be so desperate that you have to play the supporting cast in someone's “Psycho-drama” just to avoid being alone.
If you aren’t happy in the relationship, and there’s no way to solve the differences, do both of you a favor and end it.
Then volunteer your spare time. You will meet ladies with similar interests.
LOL! If you read Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, you will know that women do need to talk about, or at least mentally explore, all aspects of their feelings in order to understand them and be at peace. However, it would probably be better for your girlfriend to do this with other women, rather than with you. Or maybe she needs to see a counselor, LOL! An hour or two a day is a lot. My husband and I hardly talk that much in a week! ;-)
You’re a better catch than to have to stay.