It would seem that you find something effeminate about the ability to give an articulate, detailed, bill of grievences.
Of course, by that standard, our founding fathers would be a gaggle of pantywaists.
You'll excuse me if I just chalk your comments up to "the lady doth protest too much."
No -- just chalk me up as somebody who isn't afraid of marriage.
Hit paper, I saw some of the comments to the New Rules of Marriage piece. I wanted to recommend Mike LaSalle’s reading of the Women’s Real Man to you covers some of the subjects here. Oftentimes when men stand up to women they question their manhood. This is predictable, common and fallacious. Anyway, check out this excellent listen:
http://mensnewsdaily.com/2007/03/08/the-womans-real-man-pt-3/#comment-33901