I take great comfort from the fearless mendacity of your post.
I defy you to demonstrate either "whining" or evidence of "how badly he's been treated."
Take your time mulling that one over because the man who enters into a marriage contract in 2008 faces far more risks than he ever did at any other point in history. In all likelihood, his wife will be infinitely more sexualized, far more materialistic, blatantly more narcissistic, and far less motherly than any woman who bonded with his ancestors. Given this eventuality, is it any surprise that modern men are increasingly reluctant to commit?
That, right there, is exactly where I got the comment. What a whiny little priss.