Nope, that's not OK either.
Believe it or not, my marriage started off similar to that thought, until the wife learned that just because she told me something didn't neccessarily mean that I was going to do it without a good reason.
I've now been married almost 25 years to the same woman.
She realizes that it's a partnership and she isn't always the senior partner.
Well then we can’t argue. I have, not once, on this thread said that the man is the boss. The whole time I simply stated my disdain for women who are the boss and the fact that it has become acceptable.
I will work to the bone to do anything mine asks me to do, and fight tooth and nail to do NOTHING she tells me to do. She is the same way.