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The Hangover That Lasts
NY Times ^ | December 29, 2007 | PAUL STEINBERG

Posted on 12/29/2007 10:23:09 PM PST by neverdem

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To: neverdem

Most people over-indulge because they’ve learned that’s how to have a “good time” with friends.

I submit that people would be much happier with themselves if they learned that going along with the crowd is NOT the path to happiness!

Become your own person and stop at one or two, then switch to something sober!
Respect yourself first and you will be surprised at how that leads to others respecting you!


121 posted on 12/30/2007 8:14:35 AM PST by G Larry (HILLARY CARE = DYING IN LINE!)
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To: MarkL
No he didn't. See 48 and 49. Another finally had to step in and answer the question. Feel free to read back.

He's told you as a cop, he's subject to tests any time and anywhere.

But that wasn't the question my friend.

Read back...You can't be this stupid.

If necessary, I'll post the specific questions he failed to answer, just for you. Ya see he never did answer the yes or no from 33, 41 etc, etc, etc.

There is a big difference between "being subject to drug testing", and being part of a mandatory, random drug testing program, where you are subject to random drug testing at any time, and people in the group, are "randomly picked" on a routine basis. I know it, he knows it, and everyone else knows it.

He just decided to head for the tall grass and refused to answer the question.

Let me know if I can help *you* understand what is specifically being asked here.

And just so you know, outside of a LEOs probationary period, they are **NOT** subject to "random" drug testing programs.... See how simple that was?

You might want to ask yourself why the other poster refused to answer the question that was asked 9 or 10 times.

Bit of advise...Beware of those that refuse to answer, or dance around, simple direct questions.

122 posted on 12/30/2007 10:01:11 AM PST by dragnet2
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To: TR Jeffersonian

ping


123 posted on 12/30/2007 10:01:39 AM PST by kalee
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To: MarkL
I am tested regularly and right now, I have a severe spider bite infection and it was itching and driving me crazy. I couldn’t get to sleep,so I decided to Freep. I knew after I posted I had screwed up, but decided not to compound the errors.

I was amused by the dancing around the inquiry and decided to keep it simple and failed.

Yes, it still itches, but not as bad or often.

124 posted on 12/30/2007 10:35:54 AM PST by razorback-bert (Remember that amateurs built the Ark while professionals built the Titanic.)
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To: razorback-bert; KJC1
KJC1, please answer r-b's question. Some of us have been waiting.

I like the analogy posted that random drug testing for LEO's is like sobriety checkpoints for the rest of us. Since you are no doubt unionized, some here feel rules for some pigs (us) are enforced less so for other pigs (you). Just like in Animal Farm.

Two questions for you.
1. Do you think of the populace you serve as civilian?
2. Are the police also civilian?

125 posted on 12/30/2007 10:50:11 AM PST by Zuben Elgenubi
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To: Zuben Elgenubi

See post 50, he did and the answer was yes.


126 posted on 12/30/2007 11:01:53 AM PST by razorback-bert (Remember that amateurs built the Ark while professionals built the Titanic.)
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To: raybbr

Sorry to disappoint you, no DUI, not even a ticket in quite a while. I went over 15 years without a ticket, but missed a speed change on an empty road last year.

I resent the attitude I get from EVERY cop at EVERY roadside check. I am NOT the enemy, and you are not my overlord. You are nothing more or less than a fellow citizen ENTRUSTED with the duty of keeping the peace.


127 posted on 12/30/2007 12:49:46 PM PST by Don W ( Police were called to a day care where a three-year-old was resisting a rest.)
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To: Rudder

Hell, I was an alcoholic before I started drinking. I’m waiting to pop somebody as soon as they start their 4th drink and I tell them they’re alcoholics. Either you don’t drink or you’re an alcoholic. Sort of along the lines you stated “We’re all alcoholics.”


128 posted on 12/30/2007 12:53:21 PM PST by jwh_Denver (Scrooge, my kind of guy.)
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To: peggybac

The definition probably includes drinking until you puke/pass out/cannot remember where you were or what you did.


129 posted on 12/30/2007 12:54:51 PM PST by aruanan
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To: neverdem
some simple but elegant studies done on lab rats

Picturing lab rats in tuxes with some fine wine.

That actually happen a lot when I used to drink.

130 posted on 12/30/2007 12:55:38 PM PST by socal_parrot
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To: dasboot

“do I qualify for SSDI?”

Of course, whatever that is. And yes, all new recruits - guilty. So now all of our cops are alchies. Heartening isn’t it? Alchies giving alchies tickets for drinking.


131 posted on 12/30/2007 1:00:07 PM PST by jwh_Denver (Scrooge, my kind of guy.)
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To: mysterio

“That’s what I think, too. But I guarantee you that is or will soon be the definition.”

You were right, at least if the poster’s info was correct. The nanny should be thrown out on her ass.


132 posted on 12/30/2007 1:06:47 PM PST by jwh_Denver (Scrooge, my kind of guy.)
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To: dragnet2

Sorry Zippy, but you didn’t ask him that... You repeatedly asked him “Why don’t they routinely and randomly drug test LEOs and judges like they do in many other professions?”

Go back in the thread... try reading it. Like I said, you were asking questions of the wrong person...

To: KJC1

Why don’t they routinely and randomly drug test LEOs and judges like they do in many other professions?

6 posted on 12/29/2007 10:56:52 PM PST by dragnet2
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To: dragnet2

In the state of CA, all cops agree to be tested at any time, any place.

Judges are another matter...I don’t know what they agree to but any testing would be welcome in my book.

7 posted on 12/29/2007 11:00:05 PM PST by KJC1
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To: KJC1

That’s not what I asked.

8 posted on 12/29/2007 11:00:36 PM PST by dragnet2
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To: KJC1
Why don’t they routinely and randomly drug test LEOs and judges like they do in many other professions?

In the state of CA, all cops agree to be tested at any time, any place.

Judges are another matter.

I’ll try to be more specific, why are not LEOs and judges RANDOMLY, and ROUTINELY drug tested like in many other professions?
9 posted on 12/29/2007 11:04:25 PM PST by dragnet2
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133 posted on 12/30/2007 5:14:18 PM PST by MarkL
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To: dragnet2
Read back...You can't be this stupid.

Oh, I did read back...

You might want to ask yourself why the other poster refused to answer the question that was asked 9 or 10 times.

You must either be an idiot, or have Alzheimer's disease, since it seems that you don't even realize what question you asked him... I'm pretty sure that most people who've been reading this thread are leaning towards the "you're an idiot" side.

Mark

134 posted on 12/30/2007 5:17:19 PM PST by MarkL
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To: Rudder; jwh_Denver
“Also, if you have binge drank more than once, you are an alcoholic.”

I didn't realize, until now, that everyone in my town is an alcoholic. So are all the people with whom I've ever worked for the past 45 years.

In high school and college I drank quite a bit. Heck, I dropped out of high school in my junior year, only going to VOTEC for half a day. I would work in the morning, from 7:30am until 11:30, then walk down to the "Underpass Bar" and have lunch before hopping on a bus to go to VOTEC... A small frozen tombstone pizza and a mug of Hamms (I was only 16 at the time, but could pass for mid twenties). Then after school, it was back on the bus, and a stop off at the bar for another mug of Hamms, before having to be back at work by 4:30.

I would get drunk most weekends. After I went back and finished high school, I went to college, which is where I started my serious drinking... In fact, there was one summer where I got drunk every night, sobering up to go to work during the afternoon and evening, then getting drunk again! My roommates used to joke that they could trace my route by following the trail of empty beer and tequila bottles!

Then, I read somewhere that "if you think you might be an alcoholic, you probably are one." I didn't think that I had a drinking problem... Nope, I had that one down pretty good! But seriously, I started to get a bit worried. So I stopped drinking. And I didn't have another drink for a number of years. Then one day, I decided that I'd like a beer. So I had one. And stopped at one. And to this day, I can have a drink or two, without getting drunk, and stop at that point.

Given that, I think that I probably qualify as an alcoholic by the author's standards, but not by any reasonable definition of the clinical description of an alcoholic.

Mark

135 posted on 12/30/2007 5:31:00 PM PST by MarkL
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To: MarkL
The DSM has a useful definition of "Alcohol Dependency."

'If alcohol use leads to a pattern of social or occupational dysfunction, then you're called alcoholic.' In other words, if alcohol use causes repeated problems in your life and you continue to drink, you're alcoholic.

136 posted on 12/30/2007 6:01:03 PM PST by Rudder
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To: MarkL

LOL..


137 posted on 12/30/2007 6:32:27 PM PST by dragnet2
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To: neverdem

Actually, the problem is that New Year’s Eve is amateur night.

Stay home and enjoy yourself in your own way.


138 posted on 12/30/2007 6:35:53 PM PST by alarm rider (Why should I not vote my conscience?)
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To: MarkL

“Given that, I think that I probably qualify as an alcoholic by the author’s standards, but not by any reasonable definition of the clinical description of an alcoholic.”

I think you’re probably right on the money with this. Any definition of an addiction, at least to me, would have to include the word “craving.” They’re are a lot of problem drinkers and drunks who I wouldn’t consider alcoholics because they’re drinking for whatever reason without the craving for alcohol itself. It could be caused by boredom or the change in mood that is the prime catalyst in drinking. That to me is not an alcoholic. An alcoholic craves the stuff. It’s like me and tobacco. At first I want a cig, then I need a cig, then I crave one. That’s addiction.


139 posted on 12/30/2007 6:36:22 PM PST by jwh_Denver (Scrooge, my kind of guy.)
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To: incredulous joe

I do try my best to stay on top of it. The only problem is I don’t know my limit really, and sometimes I don’t want to just drink beer.

But it’s a learning process.


140 posted on 12/30/2007 10:09:21 PM PST by wastedyears (Merry Christmas, FReepers)
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