So, you’d prefer your wife to put the kids in daycare from age 6 weeks and go to work, and work 40+ hours a week, in the eventuality that you might divorce, than have Mom stay home to raise the kids and have few marketable job skills.
Sounds like planning to fail to me.
After the children are in school the Mom would do better for herself and the country if she would gain marketable skills. After all,do you want her to be dependent on a man for the rest of her life.
If the Mom is a little more savy she might not lose the Father to someone else. Also she would be better prepared should the Father work himself to death, become disable or fired.
Sounds like a good family plan to me.