Madam, you cannot possibly understand what a kangaroo court the family courts have become since you are the beneficiary from such things.
I, on the other hand, have no rights to determine what I will or will not provide for my children. That decision, is made by the courts, state legislature, and other agencies.
If the tables were turned on you, and you had to pay 50% of your after tax income in Child Support(like I do) and other related costs as determined by said kangaroo court, without any accounting for where and how that money was spent, you would be singing a different tune.
I can see reasons, don’t think I can’t, but I’m wondering, if she can’t be trusted to raise your children, why’d you marry her?