[najida]

Face it ladies...more often than not, it is the guy who gets the short end of the deal in divorce and custody courts...almost all the time! Carp about it all you want. Bring all of the "oh I once knew a gal" and "let me tell you my story" examples you like, but the fact remains the same. Guys get screwed more times than not.

Ok, now you've let your hand show. Your mind is made up and you have a myopic view of women. Look, I honestly know as many woman who've been screwed over in divorce and custody situations. I've heard horror stories on both sides, and I also have seen the hows and whys of the situations.

Like you, I base it totally on anecdotal evidence. And do you realize, that there are a lot, I mean a LOT, I mean a lot of Freeper females here who either haven't got a penny, or who can count their total child support for over 10 in triple digits?

Yet you act like they deserve the crap they've gotten....or its OK, or whatever.

Amy I saying guys haven't or don't get screwed? No. But the picture you guys keep painting HERE is like you're these innocent victims, and any woman HERE who posts the opposite of your beliefs must bet some evil witch, a crazy vampire or a 690 pound bull dyke.

Thanks, and were supposed to treat you with respect and courtesy? Why?

There are two sides to these stories. And a lot of good, kind, decent and NORMAL looking humans on both sides of the equation.

PS, there are a bunch of guys who posted some pretty bloody slash and burn posts that spiked the meter on psychotic bitter complaining. I mean, NOTHING compared to what I've seen women post here.... Yet its funny to see all the "there there, we guys are here for ya...." sympathy the wack jobs get....Holy crap. I've seen chickens treed by dogs who were more in controll.

But oh, I forget, we women (here) are evil beyond hope and redemption so anything you guys say and do to us (here) is OK. Out of fairness, why haven't you given them (ya know, the male, out of control, psycho, meter spiking bitter wack jobs) the equal "Bitter Boy Under the Microscope" scrutiny and asked them the same questions?

Rhetorical question because I know the answer.....and you men call US cliquish. hrmpt. Lockerooms don't die after high school.

[DeLaine]

Thank you for speaking up (writing)
There’s enough pain to go around, isn’t there.

[woollyone]

najida...you do not sound like a very happy person.

I hope that this next year, you will be able to lay down the bitterness that you are holding onto so tightly.

Merry Christmas.

[beezdotcom]

I've seen chickens treed by dogs who were more in control.

I've never seen a chicken treed by a dog, but when I was 5, am angry chicken treed ME.