I think it was a mixed bag.
Certainly it seems, appears from avaiable evidence likely the parameters and punisments at the hand of Mom . . . evidently with at least SOME EMOTIONALLY incestuous stuff . . .
made his childhood and at least his teen years
a very crazy existence.
There have been numerous accusations of this. But when I look back through this forum I find that 100% of the occurrences of this delusional accusation comes from a single source - yourself.
I can't figure you out. Sometimes you seem rational and logical. And then other times you make the most highly offensive, completely unsupported accusations towards people you know virtually zilch about. Is there some Jekyll & Hyde thingy here, that I should know about? Eg, morning vs night, or pre-coffee vs post-coffee?