Don’t take it too personally...I know how you feel.
I am a conservative Republican living in Massachusetts, and have to wade through the “all Massholes are blithering liberal idiots” comments on threads, even though I know plenty of conservatives up here, there are just way too many liberals.
People are just condemning SF in a general kind of way.
So, those "festive" parades are rejected by most people in SF?
You are either rather biased in your viewpoint of your city or very accepting of "behavior". If you deny the almost absolute permissiveness of SF, I call BS. Just because you do not personally support it (I presume) does not mean it is not the status quo.