That’s what I’m saying.
I know you mean a ‘lets take a break, get our heads level and think’ separation.
But for many its “PARTY PARTY PARTY”. They were out of the marriage even BEFORE the separation.
You can’t force a person to feel the emotions you believe they should feel. If someone doesn’t love you, and most of all, doesn’t want to love you and be faithful to you, all you have left is force to make it look like they do and are ;) (as in the government).
Thank God we live in a free country.
Exactly. And I wonder how much our EZ-divorce culture contributed to their thinking PARTY PARTY PARTY.
As for a “free country”, I needn’t remind you that divorce was much much more rare before we were a big-government nanny-state. I think limitations on divorce is perfectly consonant with freedom.
If my spouse doesn’t want to love me and be faithful to me, then she is the agent of destruction in the marriage. I don’t see though why I should do her one better and kill it with my own hands.