[prairiebreeze]

Because, I could be wrong, but I’m pretty sure I remember you being one of the nastiest, lowest, and most vocal Anti-Fred posters around here pretty much from the getgo.

You aren't wrong.

[SergeiRachmaninov]

I am sorry to have hurt you by sometimes being the skunk at the Fred Kool-Aid party. Naturally, you feel the need to attack the messenger.

I feel your pain, and I am here for you. After you've let him go -- grieved and found closure -- gotten over your shame and embarrassment -- you'll feel better.

Until then, you are welcome to kick me -- the messenger -- if it makes you feel better.