I’m sorry but adulterous sex in a nursing home is disgusting
Since when is "holding hands" the equivalent of "adulterous sex?"
This is a horribly devastating disease, not just to the patient him/herself, but to the family as well.
My husband is a very strong man, but I can't count the number of times I had to hold him as he attempted to deal with the loss of his mother to it. Trying to explain what was going on to his teenage nieces was even more difficult.