[Fawn]

One who places her marriage and family and husband above her own ego and need for vaildation

Well....'women have come along way baby' it's the man who should place the woman on a pedestal. The woman you describe sounds like the mail order brides.... kind of pitiful and desperate.

[Mr. Jeeves]

...it's the man who should place the woman on a pedestal.

Women very quickly learn to hate that - and rightfully so, because they have to spend their whole lives living up to an ideal created by a worshipper. Usually, the tremendous stress of that will drive her to cheat on her worshipper with someone more accessible.

[wardaddy]

I never said a woman should not be on a pedestal.

I hope it all works out for you one day.

[Greg F]

One who places her marriage and family and husband above her own ego and need for vaildation

You made fun of that and said it sounded like a mail order bride. Reverse the sentence. "One who places her ego and need for validation above her marriage, family and husband. " Lovely woman that one, yes, yes?