our marriage.....
Trust you mean: your/my marriage....lol
yes! that’s it!
But many others as well.
It seems I remember that statistically speaking women tend to marry older men - so your formula would work against that trend.
My hubby is 6 yrs. older than me. There came a point where we decided it was silly to pay someone else to raise our kids.
So obviously, I cannot officially earn as much as my hubby - but he doesn’t have to worry about where his kids are either.
He also has a money manager - I don’t think the guy has balanced the checkbook once...not once. He has no interest in it.