[thinking]

Men need to take responsibility 1st....

sort of reminds me of the old military saying; all the responsibility, without any authority...

I for one, recommend that young men, avoid marriage, until the female person, has equal value, that is career, income, and savings....so, if a new house is in the plan then the female person, contributes an equal amount to the purchase and subsequent expenses...until the female person, has the money, then rent am apartment...

[Scotswife]

“I for one, recommend that young men, avoid marriage, until the female person, has equal value, that is career, income, and savings....so, if a new house is in the plan then the female person, contributes an equal amount to the purchase and subsequent expenses...until the female person, has the money, then rent am apartment...”

wow...that formula would have automatically ruled out our marriage.