[ByDesign]

“marry a traditional woman if you want a family”

Of course, that goes without saying, the problem is, that kind of woman is getting harder to find, and the wrong kind have figured out how to reel men in.

[ItsOurTimeNow]

Amen.

I would add that it’s not “divorce” that has destroyed families, but feminism.

Women have been sold a lie for the last 30 or 40 years that they don’t need men or a family in order to be fulfilled. It’s rubbish.

If a young man wants to marry and have a long-lasting relationship, he needs to find a woman who has rejected Oprah and Lifetime Network and has embraced God as her role model.

[ThanhPhero]

Viet Nam is full of them and they are accessible. They also tend to be quite intelligent if not highly educated(most to 8th grade).

[JamesP81]

Of course, that goes without saying, the problem is, that kind of woman is getting harder to find, and the wrong kind have figured out how to reel men in.

My view is that the wrong kind are generally indistinguishable from the right kind. The risk you take is too high, and the benefits too low to justify said risk.

A great many people in religious orders lead celibate lives, so contrary to the sneering 'if you don't get married, you're either living in mom's basement or gay' crowd, leading a celibate life is quite doable.