You throw people in jail for breaking real laws. Such as rape, murder, and stealing my money to buy votes.
The government was not created to save us from ourselves. Right now my TV is off, because I have control over my life and I can turn off the TV.
I have been to Taiwan which is pretty conservative, If I wanted to do so, which I didn’t, I could have gone down to the Shilian night market and bought a porno dvd.
That is enforcing your value systems on somebody else who does not adhere to the same set, and by external action, pressures him or her to take actions they otherwise would not take through free choice. Coersion.
You and I are simply arguing degrees.