It’s only the gay heterosexuals who do this - where else are you sure to meet suitable men?
Real queers go to bars and bathhouses.
They have been doing it for eons. My great Uncle once told me back in the 80s (he was around 90) that I should watch out for the ‘fairies’ in the public bathrooms. They would be the ones washing their socks in the sink. I’m not sure how we got on to the subject at the time but I remember him warning me back when I was a teen.