And until men quit doing as you did, quit calling her bitch, she wont be taken down. All that word does even to a conservative woman is set any womans teeth on edge. It muddies your fine argument with something that women instinctively hate, men who call women, any women, bitches. It is like the N word for many many women. I know there are exceptions, but I dont like women who call women bitches either. It is a sisterly kind of thing. Well then. I'll use the "c" word.
It's more fitting anyway.