To any normal thinking man or woman, your line of so-called reasoning is sick.
Do you really want this crime to be called and sentenced the same exact way that you would want the man who stalks your wife in a underground parking garage, puts his grimy hands over her mouth, hits her a few times, puts a knife to her throat - - then cuts her pants off her as he hold her with his knee on her throat on a cold, concrete floor then brutally rapes and tears her.
Look, it isn’t the same crime. One is rape, the other is sex without pay. Any reasonable person can tell the difference. I’ve said enough.