My kids were and will be home schooled. I have empathy if you dislike the schools. My children do not belong to the public system.
That doesn't mean I hate gays, though. I have neighbors who are gay. As far as I can see, they go to work, they pay taxes, they get up on Sunday & go to church. I don't see them as my enemy and never have. I am nice to them, and they are nice to me.
I can find plenty to dislike about the public schools without dragging gay people into it. Plenty.
There is indeed plenty wrong with the public schools, and the promotion of homosexuality is one of them. It doesn't mean you hate your homosexual neighbors if you object to two boys being voted in as homecoming "princes", unless we've reached the point where opposition to any demand by homosexuals is considered to be "hate". And sadly, we may have just about reached that point.