Your argument that you would not send the unwilling mother to jail but the abortion doc only does not hold water.
If a woman consents to abortion she is a party to the act committed by the doctor. And as such bears the responsibility.
I think the reason many take this natural conclusion of criminalizing abortion is that they know deep down that people would reject their whole argument about criminalising abortion if they understood that the women having them would be criminalised.
If you truly think abortion is murder, the mother to be who consents to an abortion is a murderess.
Can you go that far?
I can go as far as to prosocute the ACTUAL actor (person) that kills the baby!
unless the woman preforms a SELF ABORTION, I very much know my argument HOLDS H2O!