Whatever, it would have been her husband's call.
Not necessarily.
In the situation of Terri S. her husband should not have been allowed to literally murder his wife by starving her to death. Any moron could see there were conflicts of interest with his whore and her kids fathered by him. Surely even you can see his motive for wanting her dead.
Her parents should have been allowed to care for Terri since he obviously didn’t.