No, I think your wrong. Pelosi is an elitist, she would be mortified if her grandchildren did this, this is for more "common" folk.
She just thinks that other people should be able to do this if they want with their kids, but believe me she would be mortified of the embarrassment this would cause if HER kids ever allowed her grandchildren to do this.
I don't know about that. Pelosi apparently didn't bat a bug-eyed eyelash when, on national TV, Whoopi said she would like to "do" Nancy and her husband. I wonder what her grandchildren thought about that?