Amen! We decided long ago that it was far more important for our child to read, understand and make good choices than to try to protect him. It's absolutely impossible. My wife and I read and screened every movie and book that our son wanted to see or had to read. Rarely did we not let him read or see something but we did plenty of discussing.
That being said I remember my son, at the urging of a friend turning on an R-rated movie on HBO. I had HBO removed the next day.
I can understand that totally!