“you simply do not appear to be the grillee.”
Appearances can be deceiving.
“My apologizes if I’m wrong. I was just trying to direct you to an answer to your question and perhaps point out that the “heat” in your discussion is unnecessary. Neither is the heat in your response to me. My post was crystal clear and totally responsive to your question.”
I accept your apology. I think the problem is that my question is not one I seek an answer to, I already have an answer. My point in asking the question is to get the poster to THINK about what they are saying as it is obvious that they were not doing so.
That’s pretty difficult to decipher from what was posted.