That's an odd assertion, to put it mildly. Do you always blame the victims?
She didn't persecute you! She told you you would be better off as a Christian! Are you persecuting an Arab when you him he would be better off as a Jew????
Jews don't seek to convert others to Judaism. In fact, those who wish to become Jews undergo a rather rigorous program of study, etc., which can take at least a year to complete.