[Tabi Katz]

I wonder which is generally worse heathwise - a bad marriage or none.

[Mr. Jeeves]

I wonder which is generally worse heathwise - a bad marriage or none.

A bad marriage, of course. The ill effects of not being married are actually the result of an immature neediness - which is all too common in today's society. The meditator with a balanced heart chakta can sit alone in a room for a hundred years in a state of perfect bliss.

Marriage can be a blessing over and above the state of internal bliss, but one has to achieve that state first.

[tired1]

trust me: a bad marriage. you have to be in one to long for the days when you thought you had problems.

[iceskater]

Bad marriage - no doubt.

As I always say, “Which is worse - being alone or wishing you were?”

[A_perfect_lady]

I wonder which is generally worse heathwise - a bad marriage or none.

I suspect for men it's worse to be alone and for women it's worse to be in the bad marriage.

[em2vn]

A bad one.

[Fawn]

What do you think? The stress being single is much less if you have a nag or slug to fight with every day.