"Show me just what Mohammed brought that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached." - Manuel II Palelologus
The need for it to be officially sanctioned exists in the minds of the homos. The mere fact that they are demanding the word is an admission that they feel guilty in what they do. Knowing they aren't going to be sanctioned by the church (or the laws of God) they are forced to have their guilt mitigated by having society, through law, recognize their union as on parity with heteros. So their God has become the state.
The need for it to be officially sanctioned exists in the minds of the homos. The mere fact that they are demanding the word is an admission that they feel guilty in what they do. Knowing they aren't going to be sanctioned by the church (or the laws of God) they are forced to have their guilt allieved by having society, through law, recognize their union as having parity with hetero marriages.
In essence, demanding that the state be their 'god' and grant them acceptance, removing the stain of sin and its attendant psychological/spiritual consequences.