The “frustrated” can either pay their child support payments or keep it in their knickers or prevent the actual pregnancy in the first place in other non-homicidal ways. We don’t need such irresponsibles as allies.
Just who do you think you are? You ally with babykillers to preserve the status quo?
Who are you to decide one American citizen gets several months post-coitus to choose parenthood, and another American citizen has to choose pre-coitus?
You go on and play about with woulda, shoulda, and aughta: I deal in "is."