I fail to understand why some Christians believe this woman would be a better person had she hung on for a few more months in agony and in pain rather then be whole again in heaven.
Fortunately they are not in charge of salvation and forgiveness. Maybe some of them have never seen how horrible and painful a death from cancer can be. Others I am sure just want to make themselves out to be better Christians than this woman or others that opt for this way of death. As Christians I do understand that we are to submit to God’s will, which might include pain and suffering in death. I also know that God is very familiar with our weakness and inability to live up to our responsibilities. He loves and forgives us anyway.