well, i'm back from an extended "off forum" stay again. more sickness in the family (at age 60, i'm the healthiest of the adults in the family right now.) that required my "presence".
My family is fairly lucky, I think. We have all managed to stay healthy, and I think it probably has to do with how and where we were raised, as much as the gene pool we came from.
Prayers for your family (and you!)