The last paragraph of the article really says it all. This is NOT an anti-war movement, it is an anti-Bush movement dressed up in an anti-war movement's clothing. They do not see surrender in Iraq as bad for America, just bad for George Bush and so it must happen.
You are right that most don't understand the art of compromise, but that stems from being raised as spoiled brats who always got their way and who have still not grown up.
You are also correct that it was never really about the war. It was about Bush. Soros's hatred for Bush spread like a cancer. President wasn't the one who divided this nation. It was Soros and his minions - people like Ritter and Kucinich, Medea Benjamin, et al, who in turn used Sheehan. It was the leftist media who were worried about their bottom line in the international markets.
The whole thing nauseates me.