I guess Sally wouldn’t consider them “rulers” of the war, but what does she make of all the female officers and NCOs who have children and who are also serving in the military? Female pilots and gunners (remember the celebrated A-10 pilot?) have been dealing their share of blows to the Taliban and other Islamonuts.
Saddam's mother would be perfectly proud of her son.
That goes for most evil men.... their families make endless excuses for them.