Unfortunately we don't live in a "moral" world do we. That's why we have to have laws, and the child is being protected by the law even if it's parents and other persons not party to the marriage don't care.
Best for the father to get to court and straighten this out. Same for the mother.
The baby-daddy is going to be brought into this eventually.
36 posted on 09/12/2007 9:01:11 AM PDT by muawiyah