To be honest, I don’t know that I would ever have invited the kid in. Without anything in particular in mind, I’d have felt some unease in the situation.
When my kids were at home and knew the kid, no doubt it would have been different. Come on in. But all a kid has to do today is make a claim and one is tried and convicted. Can’t risk it. Won’t risk it.
I’m a father and grandfather married 35 years. But live in fear of some charge and not willing to risk it.
This is where we are.