A bitter, militant bull dyke (no offense.)
Yes, it does mean something. And that something has a precise definition and what you, Ms. Kuehl, and your ilk are trying to cram down everyone's throats does not, and never will, fit that definition. Marriage is a specific thing and if you don't fit that, well, too bad. Get over it! Nobody is stopping you from having your perverted relationships, but you will never be "married".