I've been through the process a couple of times and I have to say the gov't provided markers are quite limited in terms of design or inscription to keep a uniformity.
I don't remember my voiced position when the lawsuit first came up but recall it was at a time when I was waiting to see if the marker we had requested would reflect what we hoped in light of the callous, inattentive service received on site. Ultimately the marker was satisfactory if not what was desired.
Excluding her from this meeting shows grand stupidity. I'm sorry Bush was put in this position and I'd want to know who was responsible.
As far as the marker, the real point of contention was the foot-dragging over adding a Wiccan symbol to the already approved list. The excuse was the lack of a central or governing body for that faith. I guess this ultimately comes down to "free exercise thereof" and this I'm not surprised she was ultimately victorious in getting the symbol on the marker.