No, it makes you a malignant narcissist.
Excellent term for it.
I’ll translate the story from below 14th Street New Yorkese to actual english.
I got out of grad school, worked my ass off in a cut throat field, advanced and had a kid. Hubby wasn’t getting with the program. Even though I set him up with numerous job interviews, nothing was good enough for him. So I dumped the do-nothing bum while I was still young enough to land something respectable.