“For some reason too many women think they are way better than they are.”
This is especially true online. But in the last several years the amount of men seeking women has doubled or quadrupled the amount of women seeking men. Then you must contend with the women who are only posting their profile as an ego-boosting measure and have no intention of ever giving any respondent a SINCERE chance.
So when you have 5-10 guys for every woman (and let’s face it, it’s our constant quest to find va-jay-jay to put our genitals in) you have men who will ‘adjust downward’ their expectations for women and thus when all these relatively good looking men start hitting on/communicating with mediocre women, those women will get an inflated sense of themselves BUT one that is buttressed by experience and they WILL land themselves decent boyfriends or sexual partners-—ones above their ‘level.’
Now, in the real world, it’s a little different but most women who are average think they are much better than that because so many good-looking guys hit on them. For one, they THINK the guy is good-looking but that might not always be the case. And two, they don’t comprehend that the guy is not trying to marry them but just wants to ‘hit’ and that our standards for ‘hitting’ are not NEAR the standards for “marriage” or even “long-term relationship” or even “I’m OK with being seen out in public with you repeatedly.”
Thus, it throws the entire natural dynamic out of wack but there’s little we can do about it but exercise self-control and only try for women that we “can be seen out in public with on more than a few occasions.” At least :P
BTW, the thing about heels is absolutely true. Talked to a lot of women (or seen them online) who basically come out and say something so stupid. I can understand a really tall girl wanting a taller guy but what is funny to me are the oompa loompas who want someone a foot or more taller than them. I see more ‘average’ height women OK with men of below average-to slightly above average height. It’s a funny thing.
True word my friend. Its really up to us isn't it. Of course in our younger years girls were not so damn easy so we naturally lowered our expectations. Today they are worse than men so we should make an effort to raise them again, or quit trying to get laid.