What about the first husband who wanted to be with his daughter, and now some other man is standing in his place? Do you think HE’S bothered by this?
No idea. I’ve seen reasonable people arrange their lives in a reasonable fashion in stranger circumstances.
I would add that if you want a traditional family life — dad working 9 to 5, mom at home with the kids, etc. etc. — then NYC isn’t the place to find it. It’s a very competitive place and if you want to play with the big boys, then you better be prepared to give 100%, which doesn’t leave much for family life.