I got the link to this article from the site "AmericanWomenSuck" this morning. I was there visiting after reading about that site on the thread about Languishing 30 something females, by fembot Marisa Micallef which depicted the state of modern feminism and it's impact on the dating scene in Malta.
Quote: "Everywhere you go, and never more so than in summer when everyone is out displaying their wares, via plastic bag filled boobs, pert bums, over arched eyebrows, waxed of hair female and male bodies, you see hordes, or groups of thirty something girls who may never marry( unless they find a foreigner), who may never have kids,(unless they decide to go it alone), and who are in a sense doomed to the frustrations and none of the glamour of the lives of women we saw in Friends, on Ally McBeal, on Sex in the City."
And of course I became intrigued. It's sad that so many women have fallen for the lies promoted by feminism. What they think has "set them free" has doomed them to a life without children and man who's willing to stay with them long enough to provide them any comfort.
And worse, the same movement has fostered a generation of men who are just as willing to embrace the lack of any real responsibility for themselves, any children they have throughout their random encounters or the women who are willing to produce them.
I mean, yes, they were there before, but now society seems to celebrate their like instead of castigating them for the disaster they are creating for our country.
OK, I could rant for hours, but frothing at the mouth is hard work and I have a long, long day ahead. I'll be content to check in and see how my fellow FReepers receive this post.
To be honest, I see some of these ladies every day. Career oriented, goal driven and fierce competitors in the corporate world. And Alone...a point that strikes as obvious on any given company event or outing. To be honest, I pity them and it's very sad. To work so hard and then to look back on your life and realize that you wanted something else? Feminism has been very cruel to these women. It's heartbreaking.
To counter this, we have several mothers we work with in the group. They are high level and yet each have several children and either a good marriage or relationship. They are indispensable and I do not know what I would do without them, we rely on each other AND they are a joy to work with. They are happy and fulfilled and it shows. The former group seems very bitter and full of complaints in comparison.
Oh, and here's the link to the thread at the other site in the event people are curious about the debate there. Most of the threads are similar to this.
As far as American women? They are wonderful. There is no difference between them and foreign women that would place any benefit in the latter's court. You just have to meet the right one. Just find one that hasn't been "lost" due to "MTV exposure" and remember that MTV is shown around the world...
Beta husbands? I thought they were all VHS.
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Dr. Laura says it best:
“I know some of you women really enjoy dominating your husbands... running every part of their lives... but one day ladies, you will NEED A MAN. If you did not Marry one, you will not have one when you need him”!
LLS
She just wants herself with male instrumentation.
These fantasy thoughts about rhubarb pie and whatnot just churn my stomach. “oh, I’m so enlightened, it takes 5 minutes just to describe what we’re eating, it’s got double curry, apple twisty-goo, with a julip swirl of double mocha sprinkled with pre-masticulated bean sprouts”, look at me!
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The woman is a little nuts and a whole lot shallow because of the way she through her marriage away. But she’s insane for writing down and then actually selling this story.
“They got a word for that Jules, its called a bum.”
She has a kid with a loser husband (film school? Give me a break!) and then ditches him. Then she’ll end up wondering why her kid is screwed up.
Sounds like they deserved each other. Yeeech.
She knew he was a liberal arts major wimp when she married him. You marry a St Bernard, you don’t get to complain about the slobber.
Men and feminists alike refuse to accept this, but it's the whole ball game. Women still want to marry up, and will never be satisfied in a relationship where they can't trust their man and follow his lead. It doesn't matter if she is CEO of Microsoft and he is a part-time handyman (and I've known a few couples like that) - the relationship won't last unless the part-time handyman is the boss/leader/alpha figure of the two.
So I don't have any problem with Amy's article - except that she has repeated her mistake. What she is really saying here is that she desperately wants her man to take the lead - but feminist dogma has left her terrified of potential "abusers", so she has once again selected a safe, college-student-like figure who won't challenge her on any level. And another divorce in about three years.
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This woman will dump her second husband as soon as she gets tired of him, just like she dumped the first one. If she had stayed home after her child was born instead of going back to work, her first husband would have been forced to get a job. But she took away his incentive to find a job by going back to work. If she wants to be “the man” in the marriage, she can’t expect her husband to be the man as well.
Sounds like Miranda Hillard in Mrs. Doubtfire
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107614/
Thing is, those kids loved their daddy and she took them away from them.
They way she writes suggests that she is still an immature little girl incapable of an adult relationship.
Mextrosexuals are not men.
Somebody pass the kleenex!
Sheesh!
She left one stay-at-home dad and fell for another!
I see divorce in their future.
What a freaking nut job!
Woody Allen once described this woman and the men she goes with quite well:
“They probably sit around on the floor with wine and cheese, and mispronounce allegorical and didacticism. “
Could she be any more pretentious? I'm surprised she was able to find any men willing to put up with her self-important pomposity.