Posted on 08/28/2007 4:43:46 PM PDT by blam
If a woman chooses success, she’s called selfish and accused of neglecting her family.
If she chooses romance, she’s called a lazy gold-digger.
So where does that leave women?
I’ll just go with success in the name of providing for a family. I’m not going to be a victim.
(again the only woman on a FRGender thread?)
Regardless: Don't Come Drinking With Loving On Your Mind
Stupid romantic me, I chose the woman and son option and lost my job. A couple of months later, they, too, were gone.
Life has been a series of major life changes since that decision, some good, even great, but some really, really bad. So much for the road less traveled.
Moral of the story? A woman is much easier to find than a great job doing what you love with people you've come to know as family.
Erase gender and a female president is ok.
Reverse gender and a female president is ok.
Hammer away at the female is weak stereotype and a female president is ok.
Make males look more effeminate and a female president is ok.
Hit piece for pondering ignoramuses.
Exactly. This is a biased sample to begin with chosen to provide the results the researchers intended when they set up their "study".
All men are always looking for a little romance, especially when we are liquored up a little. We are a gender that truly desires intimacy with women.
Instead of intimacy, I have found women to be more concerned about impersonal things, like knowing your real name, or your actual phone number.
Men: we are the ones that truly desire closeness.
You’re right.
Now that we see eye to eye, lets get married. I’ll sacrifice. Then you won’t be accused of being a gold digger.
I wonder if the results would be the same if they studied Premed, Engineering, and Science Majors, rather than Psychology Majors. I doubt it.
LOL
well how about that
Depends on who it is. If it's some woman who simply believes it's smart to "marry up," she's not. If she's (the late) Anna Nicole Smith marrying some wealthy old geezer, then she is.
I don’t believe this for a New York Minute! My husband has become “richer” each and every year since he married me.
Proverbs 31:10-23
Rubies Rock! :)
The study is fatally skewed. Probably only kind, sensitive guys answered the questionnaire. By definition, those who were selfish or busy preparing for their big career wouldn’t have taken the time to participate.
Women like us kick @ss! We don’t need to explain ourselves, because We Rock!
“Ill just go with success in the name of providing for a family. Im not going to be a victim.”
I’m not getting all “churchy” on ya, but read this for proof that you are on the right path.
Proverbs 31:10-23
...and Freepmail rabidralph. She needs help in destroying a Vick Bobblehead Doll in a most spectacular fashion. ;)
from Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
The fools.
A successful man is one who can earn more than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
hmmm...Hubby and I are closing in on six years of marriage. This year, without a doubt, has been the happiest and most satisfying year we have been together. Basically, we have learned how to best nurture our marriage together.
Interestingly enough, this year has been Hubby’s most successful year in his career. I believe that his having a secure, peaceful, supportive home environment has been a huge factor in his success.
I wonder how they defined romance? If they mean a case of beer and the whole day watching foot ball games with your main squeeze, then I agree. But if not, well, then we have it will have to discuss this issue after I get back from the business trip.
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