They had to use daycare instead of having someone watch her in their home?
Judging by how most physicians live and the cars they drive, they most certainly could have afforded to stay home for a few months.
I’ve yet to meet any of them who live at the level we have to.
So, are you suggesting because they are doctors, they should live “at the level we do”
I have noticed people prefer the day care because they think it is safer,,other people around and so on. They seem to be terrified of individual nannies and such.
But that said, you stay home, think it is important and that is fine. Why do you deem to think your decision is everyone elses unless they are somehow flawed.