I dont believe widow Tillman is pulling a Cindy Sheehan hereshe's rightly attacking leaders that failed in their duty in the wake of her husband's death.
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They are constantly referring to Rumsfeld and the President, not just the army leadership. The mother has adopted a lot of the same terminology of Sheehan and other anti-war verbiage.
His wife’s speech seems very reasonable and even handed, especially considering the pain she had. From these quotes she does not appear to be flame throwing.