FredT is a big time believer in federalism. On this issue I part ways with FredT. IMO, the best option available for assuring the sanctity of marriage is upheld throughout America, would require a Constitutional amendment. And no, I’m no “idjut”. Make marriage between one man and one woman the law of the land and ban all other attempts to subvert the institution of marriage. To include a ban on homosexual/gay/lesbian marriages. This should include what has been commonly called, “civil unions”. If a homosexual wants an immoral relationship with another homosexual, fine, get it on. Just keep the door shut. If two homosexuals want to share in common aspects of life such as, retirement benefits, personal healthcare insurance, living wills or whatever, let them get a lawyer and draw up a personal contract. Otherwise, society isn’t obligated to accpet any form of marriage beyond that of one man and one woman.
just FYI, Office Depot, OfficeMax, and Staples ALL sell cohabition forms which fit the legal bill you speak of. Cost is mere 15 to 25 dollars depending on location.