Maybe not to you or me, but to a majority of Americans they will make the Hobbesian choice and decide that it is better to help the living with research and do something good with those embryos that would otherwise be detroyed for no good reason at all.
Somehow I doubt you speak for most Americans on this as you claim.
The vast majority have no idea this scam is being perpetrated on them...and on the innocent children that are being destroyed for convenience and profit.