I had to chuckle at this. It's true. It's SO true that I avoid any thread about wives, alimony, child support, feminism, men's rights, battle of the sexes, Asian women, etc., etc., etc. It just ain't worth it.
I used to reply, sometimes at length. Now I find it to just be a waste of time. No shortage of rugged, individualistic men who believe their lives were derailed by a divorce, or that their sorry lot in life is because they fell victim to affirmative action 30 years ago.
Conservatives can fall into the victim mentality as well as liberals (who to be fair, make it a life mission).