Next time you read about a serial murderer or a thief, think of your son.
We do have to make laws that are applicable to everyone’s son and daughter - and with a “there but for the grace of G_d go I” attitude - both for the victim(s) and the guilty. However, we shouldn’t decide on the enforcement of law on a case-by-case or emotional basis.
What terrible analogies.
Oh, and BTW, I do think it should be illegal; I’m just not in for punishing (i.e. jailing) the woman. Maybe fining her might be considered but even then it could be disastrous since many of these women are very poor.